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(240 pages)

She Comes First: The Thinking Man's Guide to Pleasuring a Woman by: Ian Kerner publisher: Collins released: 2004-05-25 ISBN: 0060538252 $17.90

I had read many books regarding the topic of oral sex on woman. By far, this is the best... Author introduce the topic of cunnilngus from the fundamental. If you truly want to learn something, you have to start from the basics.

Entertaining & informative. I highly recommend to any husband out there who wants to make his wife very very happy.

God Bless

The book is pretty straight forward and does what it sets out to do, make your women scream while doing the dirty. The first 1/3rd of the book teaches you about the makeup of the happy zone of the women. I thought it was the most interesting part becuase now when i go there i know what all the parts do and what makes them go crazy. the rest of the book is about the technique you learn, which is pretty good, and not the same for all women as you should know. But it lays down the basics of how to build up tension and antisapation which is the key, it's not how fast you want it to go, but how long you can make her hold out. You do learn the proper postions that she should be in, and like men should know but don't..don't follow what's in xxx movies. Not comofortable for her, but i'll leave the rest for you to read. I read and she was curious about it too, it was great for her before i read the book, and it's awesome for now that i read the book.

First of all, I LOVE the cover. Using one thing to represent another is a well-respected practice in the tradition of the great southwest artist Georgia O'Keefe. Happily, this book has some fantastic information between its covers. While I don't necessarily agree that oral sex is better for a woman than intercourse, I do believe that the direct stimulation will allow most women to achieve an orgasm more quickly. This book is told from the male POV, which makes it a great gift for a husband or lover. If you are a couple, it would be greatly enhanced by also reading Was that an earthquake? The Sensuous Couple's (Flip Over) Guide to Seismic Oral Sex. This powerful manual is a flip over book. Book One is everything you need to know about cunnilingus. Flip the book over, and Book Two is everything you need to know about fellatio. Great for both men and women!

By the way, if you think it takes a woman a long time to orgasm, try reading this book: Five Minutes to Orgasm Every Time You Make Love: Female Orgasm Made Simple

Bravo, at last some discussion about sexuality that gets creative. I hought it was wonderful because it educates men, who have been all but completely left out of the loop about sexuality and how women have to fake it just to stop the fumbling.
I will only add one more thing to your discussion. Have her stand on a "Turbo Stroker" or the like with a pair of high heel shoes during the act...a little reward for all of his patience.

(228 pages)

Naughty Tricks and Sexy Tips: A Couple's Guide to Uninhibited Erotic Pleasure by: Pam Spurr publisher: Amorata Press released: 2007-04-24 ISBN: 1569756031 $8.00

The title is very misleading. This book is about perversion of every sort. This author suggests that any sex is great as long as someone gets his kicks, but it implies that it is a book for couples who want to add a little sizzle to their relationship. The copy I bought is in the city dump. Don't waste your money.
I could not even give this a 1 star, this is a negative 5

I have used many of the tricks and tips enumerated in this book, and have found each of them to be fun and, for the most part, useful. The fact that it is a couple's guide is good, because both my significant other and I benefited from the advice. Another book we enjoyed, which is chocked full of information, is The Sensuous Couple's (Flip Over) Guide to Seismic Oral Sex. One side is all you need to know about cunnilingus. Flip it over and the other side is all you need to know about fellatio. Female orgasm is a subject that cannot be discussed too often, as far as I'm concerned. Naughty Tricks certainly helped in that area. Here is another book that gives a simple technique that enables women to reach orgasm during intercourse: Five Minutes to Orgasm Every Time You Make Love: Female Orgasm Made Simple. Buy one or all of these books, and you will be fully informed on sex for the sensuous couple.

I was very disappointed in this a lot we already new. You can get more out of a Cosmopolitan Magazine. Save your money for that.

It teaches you to feel comfortable with your partner and allows you to write your feelings down. I haven't finished the book yet but so far it's worth the buck.

The product arrived before estimated timeand in better condition than described. Very happy with product. Willing to purchase from seller again.

(240 pages)

Ride 'Em Cowgirl! Sex Position Secrets For Better Bucking by: Sadie, Dr. Allison publisher: Tickle Kitty Press released: 2007-10-24 ISBN: 0970661134 $14.95

Why is this today s best sex position guide? Instead of twisting you into impossible pretzel poses, Dr. Sadie illustrates hundreds of ways to shape your favorite sex positions into a more passionate orgasmic fit for the two of you. Comfortably! Even better, Dr. Sadie s fun, empowering hands-on coaching inspires intimate new explorations and sensational erotic touches. You ll reveal your lover s deepest sexual desires (and yours, too!) while triggering powerful orgasms like never before especially hers! Whether you re newly intimate together or long-time lovers ready to take the monotony out of monogamy this is the one lovemaking guide ready to create a lifetime of excitement, passion, confidence, supergasms, and un-wipe-offable smiles every morning after. Try it! And read it together...in bed!

Here s what awaits you inside:

1. Your Passion Cocktail How to shake awake your lovelife
2. Supergasms The secrets to supercharging your orgasms
3. The Art of Penetration Sensual entry secrets just for him
4. The Art of Being Penetrated Sensual entry secrets just for her
5. Missionary Possible New pleasure angles when HE S on top
6. Doggystyle Enjoy new come-from-behind victories
7. Ride em Cowgirl! Exciting moves when SHE S on top
8. Spooning Rediscover the world s most romantic position.
9. Clitilicious How to arouse her orgasm trigger every time
10. The G-spot Finding and stimulating her deep pleasure spot
11. Backdoor Boogaloo Why couples stopped saying no to this old taboo
12. The HE-spot Finding and stimulating HIS hidden pleasure spot
13. Voluptuous Loving Positions designed especially for larger lovers
14. Pregnant Poses Exciting positions for the soon-to-be-mom
15. Outercourse An exciting alternative of good messy fun
16. Location! Location! Location! The joys of bypassing the bedroom
17. Vive La Difference Exciting new ways to fit your lover to you
18. Sexy Playthings Choosing the right sextoys for your longings
Appendix: Safety First How to practice safer sex every time
Position Index So many positions, so much time!

I loved this book and really got a kick out of it. It's full of all kinds of different positions and ideas, and is written in a fun, friendly, informative manner. It's a good one to look through by yourself or with a partner. I would highly recommend this book.

Even if you're sexually skillful, you can stand to learn more illustrative and explanatory sexual contact.

For my fifth anniversary, I decided I needed to spice things up a bit and bought this book and a couple of others. Sex Deck: Playful Positions to Spice Up Your Love Life- are a deck of "cards" designed with a position on front and the description on back. Was that an earthquake? The Sensuous Couple's (Flip Over) Guide to Seismic Oral Sex- is a fun flip over format with cunnilingus on one side and fellatio on the other. We enjoyed quite an anniversary romp and enjoyed reading Ride Um Cowgirl in bed later. It's not about impossible contortions but finding the best positions that work for both of you. It's all about making sex fun for both partners. These three items lived up to my hopes and expectations and sex before and after the anniversary has never been better.

It may sound corny but my boyfriend brought this book home and it's really revolutionized our sex life. For him it told him all the little things that we wish men knew but never remember to tell them because we just assume that they should know since it's so natural to us. Dr. Sadie really takes the guesswork out of giving each other pleasure. Thank you!

You know the old joke that goes, "What ONE food causes a woman to lose her desire for sex?" and of course the answer is "wedding cake." Well, I've just found a way to reverse the ill effects of all those sugary carbs in a book called "Ride `em Cowgirl!" and WOW---hold on to your dear wife!

My bride and I followed Dr. Sadie's prescription and read the book together in bed, which was a lot of fun because we could look at all the ideas and positions and laugh, relax and rekindle (without relocating!). Dr Sadie's sure right about finding your best sex positions: it's not about contorting yourselves into rubbery Cirque du Soleil knots that leads to better sex---it's about SLIGHTLY adjusting your already favorite positions for more intimate, pleasurable contact. Now instead of being one trick ponies we've become a pair of bucking broncos. Whodathought?

We (okay, I) browsed in a bookstore and flipped through a bunch of sex position books, which is awkward when other shoppers suddenly appear in the same aisle, especially attractive young blondes looking at the `help me mend my broken heart' books on the very next shelf. Anyway, I ended up buying "Ride `em Cowgirl" on Amazon, which not only sounded like a good wedding cake antidote, but I wouldn't have to feel awkward handing it directly to yet another attractive blonde at the cashier's stand who'd undoubtedly ask if I'd like to join their eager-reader's discount book buying club, but would actually be thinking, "What kind of cowgirl does this guy think he is?" Amazon quickly delivered in a plain brown box with that cute smile under their logo that suddenly started looking more and more like a wicked little grin. That Bezos!

I digress. Those other books I'd flipped through in the store and left for someone else were either boring (really...how do you make sex BORING?), preachy, impractical, wordy (with no illustrations), illustrated (with cutesy position names), too clever for their own good, too dated to still be around, too expensive for what they delivered ... you get the picture. Yet, here's what it all really comes down to: DO YOU WANT BETTER SEX? If so, then this is your book. It's a perfect blend of advice and illustrations, funny and sexy all at the same time, easy and comfortable to read with your partner. And it works. Uhhhh, what's that, honey? Not now, I'm writing. Really? You're kidding! Right now? You're NOT kidding! Why, um ... of course, yeah, sure, wow, yes, absolutely!

It's been fun. Gotta ride...

(96 pages)

It's Perfectly Normal: Changing Bodies, Growing Up, Sex, and Sexual Health (Robie Sex Books) by: Robie H. Harris publisher: Candlewick released: 2004-07-22 ISBN: 0763624330 $10.39

"Alternately playful and realistic, Emberley's . . . art reinforces
Harris's message that bodies come in all sizes, shapes, and colors — and that each variation is 'perfectly normal.'" — PUBLISHERS WEEKLY (starred review)

When young people have questions about sex, real answers can be hard to find. Providing accurate, unbiased answers to nearly every imaginable question, from conception and puberty to birth control and AIDS, IT'S PERFECTLY NORMAL offers young people the information they need — now more than ever — to make responsible decisions and to stay healthy. Already used as a trusted resource in twenty-five countries around the world (and translated into twenty-one languages), IT'S PERFECTLY NORMAL marks its tenth anniversary with a thoroughly updated edition that includes the latest information on such topics as birth control, hepatitis, HIV, and adoption, among others. This definitive new edition also reflects the recent input of parents, teachers, librarians, clergy, scientists, health professionals, and young readers themselves.

This book is just what every parent of a preeteen needs. It covers all the "taboo" topics many parents are uncomfortable discussing with their kids. I feel better knowing my daughter is armed with facts as she enters her teen years.

What I love about this series of books (we also own "It's So Amazing") is that they give enough information to answer the questions your kids may have about growing up and sex, but they don't overwhelm them. The characters of "Bird" and "Bee" also reinforce the fact that learning about the subject matter can be both interesting (Bird's perspective) and kinda uncomfortable/gross (Bee's perspective)...and that either feeling is not only okay, but normal.

My daughter and I read this book together, so that I can answer any additional questions that may come up. I highly recommend this book as part of your child's sexual education.

Let me start off by saying that I'm a 26 year old guy, single, with no kids. I hear about this book from a conservative watchdog group and to satisfy my curiosity I read it for myself. I was surprised to find it in my local library in the juvenile section considering how controversial this book is.

The content itself is not that much different than what I learned in 5th, 8th, and 11th grade. It describes the biological differences between men
and women, the changes that occur in puberty, and the process of birth. The section on abortion is politically balanced -- which is surprising for a book promoted by Planned Parenthood. The author also reiterates thought out the book that sex can be dangerous and should only be done when you are mature enough for it. She says that the only safe and guaranteed way to avoid STD's and pregnancy is abstinence, which is what I learned in school.

However, the book has a lot of things that are inappropriate for 10 year olds. It gives way too much information on the use of contraception. It also graphically shows the naked male and female body, including an erect penis, repeatedly. It shows a boy and a girl masturbating. It also shows a couple having sex twice in the books. It condones homosexuality and makes no mention of marriage. I'd be concerned that kids mike think they are "mature enough" before they really are given this information and imagery.

Personally, I would not consider giving it to anyone under 13 or 14 to read, if even that. I would not want to have it in my personal library, and I might not even want my kids to read it at all. Other people might think that this material is appropriate for their children, and that's okay. That is their right as parents. In my mind the book doesn't necessarily deserve 1 star but it doesn't deserve more that two.

I ordered this book for my 5th grade daughter. The title of this book looked harmless and full of information that I was seeking, so I purchased it. I was not aware that is was considered "perfectly normal" to engage in homo sexual activities as a part of adolescence. Unfortunately this book was full of other "normals" that I was not prepared for, let alone comfortable sharing and teaching my 5th grader (or High School student for that matter!).

I ordered this from a book club, so I was unable to thumb through it. Had I been, I would not have boughten it! When I was age 10 (heck 17 for that matter), I didn't know what it looked like for two people to have sex or what a man's naked organs look like. I turend out okay. I was a virgin until age 18 and by then I learned enough in high school health class to know about birth control etc.. I agree with what others have said that this is a how-to guide and the pictures are way too graphic for a kid. I also don't see whats wrong with letting our kids be kids a little longer. Do they really need to see this at such a young age. Also, I am against abortion and homosexuality, which this book does nothing but promote!

(240 pages)

The Complete Idiot's Guide to Supercharged Kama Sutra Illustrated (Complete Idiot's Guide to) by: Al Link, Pala Copeland publisher: Alpha released: 2006-12-15 ISBN: 1592575749 $14.93

After centuries, it’s still the best climax to a long hard day—and it’s full-color and fully- illustrated …

With its ageless wisdom and explicit advice for getting maximum orgasmic pleasure, the Kama Sutra is still considered the definitive sex manual on the market. But among its countless translations and pictorial editions, no volume has gone so deeply into its secrets as this one does—thanks to a very satisfied husband and wife team of sex experts.
--Completely full color, this book includes more than 70 photographs by Eric Levin, whose work has appeared in Rolling Stone, among other publications
--Authors are counselors and certified sex experts
--Explicit instructions and advice, with beautiful photographs
--Hot, valuable tips not found in other books on the Kama Sutra

I found this book to be very nicely done. I loved the way the models' lower intimate parts were kept discretely out of sight, which made me appreciate the tastefulness of the images even more...no porn here:) I also appreciated the explanations behind the different positions and the fact that the book was simply and honestly written for anyone to understand. Quite helpful for those of us who are not yet married, but still want to have some good ideas for when that special time comes.

The authors of this book are apparently experts, and it really shows. The pictures are very helpful, but not overwhelming. The straightforward way the book is written brings the Kama Sutra to the masses. Well written and entertaining. In addition, to this helpful tome, I would also recommend Five Minutes to Orgasm Every Time You Make Love: Female Orgasm Made Simple, which specifically addresses oral sex between couples. One side of the flip over book is all about cunnilingus; then, flip it over and the other side is all about fellatio. These two books would make a great duo.

This book is WONDERFUL!

Tasteful pictures. Great bits of advice and techniques. Fun and easy to read and understand. Good way to add some spice and creativity to your love life.

Nice book. Well written and actually has decent photos of an attractive couple to help.

THIS IS A GREAT BOOK!!! I am going to buy a copy for all my married girlfriends next Christmas! The photos are very sweet and not raunchy. The text is so easy to read and understand. Try it you'll love it!!!

(272 pages)

Body Drama: Real Girls, Real Bodies, Real Issues, Real Answers by: Nancy Amanda Redd publisher: Gotham released: 2007-12-27 ISBN: 1592403263 $13.60

“You’d think a Miss America swimsuit winner would feel completely confident about her body, right? Not always! So I decided to write the book I wish I’d had as a teen and in college— an honest, funny, practical, medically accurate, totally reassuring guide to how women’s bodies actually look, smell, feel, behave, and change. Alongside real-deal photographs of women just like you and me (no airbrushing, no supermodels, no kidding) you’ll find medical pictures of things you need to be able to recognize, true confessions by yours truly, and the encouragement you need to appreciate the uniqueness, strength, and beauty of your body. What are you waiting for?”
–Nancy Redd

From fashion magazines to taboo Web sites, curious young women have access to tons of old wives’ tales about and thousands of airbrushed and inaccurate images of the female body—misinformation and harmful portrayals that can lead to low self-esteem, self-destructive acts, or even disturbing plastic surgery procedures. Teaming up with a leading physician specializing in adolescent health issues, Harvard graduate and former Miss Virginia Nancy Redd now offers a down-to-earth, healing, and reassuring response to those damaging myths. In Body Drama, Redd gives girls insight into the issues they’re often too ashamed to raise with a doctor or parent. She also reveals her own experiences with the culture of “American beauty,” and shows readers all the many versions of “normal.” From body hair and bras, to acne and weight issues, along with crucial issues such as the importance of a healthy self image, Body Drama is a groundbreaking book packed with informative fast facts, FYIs, how-tos, and moving personal anecdotes as well as hundreds of un-retouched photographs. A highly visual book, it’s the first of its kind for women: filled with real information and real photographs of real bodies, to celebrate all our different shapes and sizes.

Named by Glamour magazine as one of America’s top-ten college women “most likely to succeed—at anything,” Redd has spent the most recent years of her life on a mission to tackle the issues least discussed but most significant in young women’s lives. Celebrating the many versions of “normal,” and replacing seriously erroneous information with the honest, medically proven truth in a language all girls can understand, Body Drama dares to empower a new generation—with facts instead of fantasies, and the priceless gift of self-knowledge.

I saw the book at my local library and wanted to purchase it. It is a very truthful book about women's bodies. I recommend it to young women who are having problems with body image, etc. It talks about loving your body despite your flaws, because face it we all have flaws with our bodies.

I bought this book for my daughter to try to negate the negative images the media portrays of young women. We need more books like this.

Very interesting and full of informative facts. Could have been a little bit more extreme for me example the cellulite picture. I would've really liked to see more emphisis on that issue being someone who suffers from it. Everything else was very reasurring and good to know. I really liked the medical views also. Thanks for writing such a real and honest book!!

This is a great book for anyone- not just teens. Adults are self conscoius of their bodies too, and do not necessarily know everything there is to know! I would highly reccommend this to anyone.

As a mother of an early teen and an Adolescent Medicine Specialist, I have found this a great resource. I have reccommended it to mothers who have asked me how they can address their daughters' body insecurities or hygiene issues. I've brought the book out when patients have asked me embarassing questions about the appearance of their bodies. It celebrates normal and shows young women what normal is, rather than the idealized normal that the media or textbooks shows them.

(480 pages)

The Courage to Heal Workbook: A Guide for Women and Men Survivors of Child Sexual Abuse by: Laura Davis publisher: Collins released: 1990-02-28 ISBN: 0060964375 $15.61

In this groundbreaking companion to The Courage to Heal, Laura Davis offers an inspiring, in-depth workbook that speaks to all women and men healing from the effects of child sexual abuse. The combination of checklists, writing and art Projects, open-ended questions and activities expertly guides the survivor through the healing process.

• Survival Skills -- Teaches survivors to create a safe, supportive environment, ask for help, deal with crisis periods, and choose therapy.
• Aspects Of Healing -- Focuses on the healing process: gaining a capacity for hope, breaking silence, letting go of shame, turning anger into action, planning a confrontation, preparing for family contact, and affirming personal progress.
• Guidelines For Healing Sexually -- Redefines the concept of "safe sex" and establishes healthy ground rules for sexual contact.

This workbook is very helpful an assisting my clients while working through their sexual abuse issues.

this workbook is a great accompaniment to The Courage to Heal - Third Edition - Revised and Expanded: A Guide for Women Survivors of Child Sexual Abuse. i worked with a survivor of sexual abuse as she went through both books simultaneously. each session, we would review what she read and gleaned from the 2 texts. there was an appropriate amount of overlap, but she also found that she learned some very different and equally helpful things from each book. the more information and guidance, the better. both are great resources. one caveat is that the book can be overwhelming for some people, and other treatment to break into the territory of recovery may be necessary first.

This book is a true gift - to me and to anyone that was abused in any way, not just sexually.

This workbook is paperback and has lots of room for notes and comments. Well construsted and felxable for use as a workbook. For any survivor this is a very needful journey. This book and its author has gathered the tools that many have but don't know how to use and helps us understand what to do and how to do it. I have greatly benefitted from this. It is a book well recieved by my therapist. For all survivors and their partners and families this is a book that gives hope, understanding and reassurance. Well worth it.

Just as The Courage to Heal was my Bible in helping me get through the crisis stage of sexual abuse revisited, helping me to decipher what it was I was feeling, and that it was perfectly normal, probably more normal than anything in my life ever had been, and letting me know what I may be going through next, and how people might react to me, ect.....This Courage to Heal Workbook is my homework in learning to become the person I should have started out as. I do a chapter a day, but you can do it a chapter a week, or at your own pace. Pre-reading The Courage to Heal is not necessary, either. It's all self-explanatory. Encourages one to give lots of deep thought to differing topics and to answer honestly and in depth. I strongly recommend this workbook to anyone struggling to heal the wounds of childhood sexual abuse. It allows you to get to know the real you inside all of the protective layers that have been unconsciencously piled on over the years....not who you want people to know, but who you really are, and who you were really meant to be. A bright shining star!

(336 pages)

The Elusive Orgasm: A Woman's Guide to Why She Can't and How She Can Orgasm by: Vivienne Cass publisher: Da Capo Press released: 2007-05-01 ISBN: 1600940234 $10.85

The female orgasm seems to be as rare as a dodo bird. I was afraid I was the only one who needed some help in this area, given the fact that sex information is readily available these days. This book gave me all the information I needed and more. It was presented in such a way that I could put it into practice, and I recommend it any woman who may not be having the orgasms she deserves. There are tons of books about this subject, but another one I found very helpful was Five Minutes to Orgasm Every Time You Make Love: Female Orgasm Made Simple. It is specifically about a woman having an orgasm while engaging in intercourse. The simple, three-step technique works very well indeed. Buy them both, and the fireworks won't just be on the 4th of July.

This book was helpful in helping me to overcome my orgasm difficuly. The good thing about this book is that it describes all the problems women have orgasming in depth, and instructs the reader on how to overcome these problems. My only complaint about this book is that the author feels the need to constantly remind the reader that you don't have to orgasm if you don't want to. I found that continous restatement annoying. If I didn't want to orgasm I wouldn't have bought the book.(Hence the four stars instead of five.) However, this book was very helpful to me personally and I believe that it is the only book of it's kind for helping women overcome orgasm difficulty. I would definitely recommend it.

With all the books on sex available on Amazon, it's hard to weed out the really good ones. Well, this one is one of those rare finds. It's easy to read, quick and to the point and actually tells you how to find that elusive orgasm. A must read! I also liked and would suggest Good Sex: A Woman's Guide to Losing Inhibition

This was a good read in that it reaally helped dispell the problmes that might be in conjuntion with lack of orgasm. It was a quick, easy read. I highly recommend it, along with Good Sex: A Woman's Guide to Losing Inhibition.

As a practicing gynecologist with a speciality in sexuality I am thrilled that this invaluable book will now be available to a wider audience. Its practical suggestions, presented in clear and straightforward language, cannot help but improve the sexual satisfaction of everyone who reads it. And sex therapists will also benefit from the wisdom Dr. Cass has accumulated over decades of clinical experience.

(240 pages)

He Comes Next: The Thinking Woman's Guide to Pleasuring a Man by: Ian Kerner publisher: Collins released: 2006-01-10 ISBN: 0060784563 $18.68

This book is wonderful, It's not a step by step, "how to" guide, but rather a look in to the male brain. It's fantastic that this book was actually written by a man as apposed to a woman. Great read, very easy. I couldn't put the book down. I finished faster than I have finished any book, in a very long time.
*Oh just a footnote here: Ian, the author of this book, is a very sexy man.

I have the same thing to say about this book as I did his companion piece, "She Comes First": I LOVE the cover. Using a piece of fruit to represent male genitalia is wonderful, and so well done. Not as pretty as the papaya used in the female version, though. What's between the covers works just as well. It is an insiders version of what constitutes male pleasure, and enables women to participate in that life as well. If one bought both of these books, all it would take to complete a couple's sexual pleasure library would be the new title, Was that an earthquake? The Sensuous Couple's (Flip Over) Guide to Seismic Oral Sex. This is a flip over book that has everything you need to know about cunnilingus in Book One, then flip it over, and you have everything you need to know about fellatio in Book Two. It's like having two books in one.

As a woman known to walk the aisles of bookstores, amused by the endless self-help sex books, I found this book to be utterly refreshing. In my humble opinion, great sex is not found in the pages of the Kama Sutra, in a hundred different sexual positions or in the guidance of former porn stars. But this remarkable book somehow captures the essence of being spectacularly sexual, inherently erotic and madly in love with your partner. I hope that women stop to realize just how important sexuality is to men (and should be to them). If you want to start researching the subject, this book is where you should start. Ian's wife is a LUCKY woman.
- Samantha, 43

This book isn't so much about the mechanics of sex as the nature of love and desire in a monogamous relationship. Don't get me wrong, there is plenty of great factual information about sex, but speaking as a woman, I have always been more curious about the deeper and more substantial mystery of love. This book really delves into that mystery and supplies a lot of expert relationship advice arising from the physical realities of the human body. For example, cuddling releases a hormone called oxcytocin in females and massage releases the hormone vassopressin in men. These hormones encourage feelings of closeness, fidelity and nesting in humans. Spending time massaging your guy actually helps build your relationship, and demanding that he spend time with his arm or leg over you will make you feel more appreciated. Even if you already knew this great little fact, you should still read this book because there are more of these cool tidbits and the book espouses a powerful new way for women to look at sex. Before I read this book, I was caught in a traditional outlook on female sexuality. I thought that sex just wasn't very fun for me and it wasn't really supposed to be fun for me. I had tried other books, but found that the "techniques" they suggested led to some embarrassing situations. I had asked my gynecologist if their was something wrong with me that made sex just no fun. I thought that porn was a necessary evil and didn't really understand why guys spend any time at all watching the stuff. After reading this book, I can truly say that I get why my guy seems to be the way he is. I have implemented some of the suggestions, and man alive, my sex life has been soooo much better. This is my first online review of a book and it is because I just had to come and gush about this book.

I got this book and "She Comes First" 15 days ago as my anniversary gift to my boyfriend and me. He has been too busy with work to read "She Comes First", so I started reading "He comes next." Just this book has been truly great for our relationship. The cover is very suggestive and one of the best parts of the book. While he is walking around the apartment, I will lounge on the chair reading. I have caught him staring at me a bunch. I know it turns him on to see me reading a book about how to turn him on. Further, the book is a page turner. I come home and the first thing I want to do is pick it up and read. I have to hold myself back to wait for my boyfriend to be around. Having read this book, I want to give it to my friend as a wedding present. This book is worth its weight in diamonds.

I read She Comes First by the same author before I read this one which was just as educational for me as it is for a man. That being said, He Comes Next was quite a learning experience! While I am good at "it", there's always room for improvement in whatever you're doing and reading this book cemented that belief. It helped me understand how a man thinks and why and how he feels (not so different from us ladies) about sensitive issues. I expected the book to be primarily about learning to give a better oral sex like She Comes First is, but I was pleasantly surprised to find that there was much more to it than that. I did, however, appreciate the education I got about oral sex. I certainly hope to satisfy my partner better now-emotionally and physically.

101 Nights of Grrreat Sex: Secret Sealed Seductions for Fun-Loving Couples by: Laura Corn publisher: Park Avenue Publishers released: 2000-09 ISBN: 0962962813 $19.77

The 3 scenarios that we tried were very exciting and erotic, I would recommend this to anyone looking to add some spice to an otherwise drab sex life. Bryan can't wait to experience the next 98 nights of great sex!

Thank you so much for introducing 101 Nights of Grreat Sex to my husband and I. Not only has our sex life been amazing, but we've gotten to know eachother so much better. We look forward to eachother's "seduction" each week. I would recommend this book to any couple, even if they think there isn't anything missing in the bedroom.

Received the book in brand new condition, shipped quickly...I am satisfied with another good easy transaction

Some of the suggestions are good, but some were just too much and took too much planning. You must really be commited to following through and put some time and effort into it otherwise save your money for a movie night.

There was nothing wrong with our sex life to begin with but this book completely elevated it to the next level! I highly recommend this book to anyone looking for ideas to make sex more exiting.